Sunday, 1 November 2015

Ladies 5 Signs You Are Dating A ‘Player’ #happySunday





A ‘player’ is one who has made it his life’s mission
to date and get intimate with as many women in as
little time as possible.
He is obsessed with his next lay and will go to any
length to convince a woman to have a physical
relationship with him.
Most players will go as far as convincing a woman
that they are interested in building a relationship
with her since this is one way to get her to bring
down her defenses. So, do you know if the guy you
are dating only considers you another notch on his
bedpost?
Here are signs to look out for if you are unsure.
1. He is too smooth: Players are extremely smooth.
Somehow, they always know the right things to say
at the right time. Nobody gets this good without
dozens of practice.
A player has had countless opportunities to practice
his move on countless women so, at this point, he
knows exactly what to say to get a woman to
swoon. He hardly ever makes mistakes and he is
very unlikely to say the wrong things. Basically, he
looks, acts and sounds like the perfect man.
2. He is secretive: A player is usually very secretive
about himself, how he spends his time, his job, his
friends and even his family. You find that you do
not really know much about him.
He keeps you in the dark regarding who he really is
and will keep mute on issues that concerns him.
This is because a player knows that if her says too
much, it is only a matter of time before he says
something that will implicate him.
3. He is too charming: Players are extremely
charming. They somehow find a way to charm every
one they meet. After an evening with your friends
and family, you will be surprised at how instantly
taken they are with him.
They know that it matters that your people approve
so they will turn on the charm. They will easily leave
your friends in fits of giggles and leave your family
in awe.
4. He avoids commitment subjects: Any topic that is
remotely related to commitment is usually avoided
by a player. He does not make plans for the future
and finds a way to escape any conversation
involving your relationship. He is very shady
regarding if he wants to get serious with you
because he knows he is only with you for a short
time.
5. His home is sacred: Are you dating a man who
acts very funny when it comes to his home? Is he
very strict with the times you are allowed to come
over and how long you can stay?
Even worse, does he try as much as possible to
keep you from seeing his home altogether? You can
tell a lot about a person by how they live and their
home is usually the best tell. If he thinks having you
over will mean you notice his lifestyle, he will keep
you away.
Also, because he is juggling a lot of girls at the
same time, he will want to make sure he knows
exactly when a lady is coming and how long, to
prevent you coming in contact with another one of
his women.

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